#94: Dealing with Manipulative People

I’ve had people in my life use manipulation to create leverage that allows them to achieve their goals.  But there is a way to handle these situations effectively to keep yourself in check.  On this episode we discuss:
  • Who is challenging/manipulative in your life
  • Why people resort to manipulation
  • Don’t get sucked in
  • Focusing on your breathing
  • Slowing down by asking questions
  • It is NOT about YOU
  • Let go of anger and resentment
  • Rebuilding trust
  • Ask for what you need
  • Be prepared for people who are difficult
Resources:
Assertiveness Activity
Select a specific interpersonal challenge you’re currently dealing with, will most likely face soon, or that you’ve unsuccessfully addressed in the past. Answer the questions for addressing this issue using this DEAR MAN Assertiveness Worksheet. Save the worksheet on your desktop, fill in your answers, save it again, and email it back to me before your next session. 

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Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.

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